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Flux & Stability

Stability within our communities is and has always been a challenge, created in part by small group dynamics. The vast majority of OC/IC projects have 20 people or less. This means that unless a higher proportion of the assembly is “committed” to the project – any minor fluctuation in say membership or even attendance can be demoralising. Congregations in the Big Tent Churches average between 75 and 50 members (there are notable exceptions) which means that a smaller proportion of their membership needs to get their hands dirty for the whole project to maintain a stable momentum, and not experience negative effects caused by fluctuations in membership and attendance.

How do we overcome this challenge of group dynamics? One answer is to grow the community. However, large communities are not the norm within our tradition – and most of us like it that way. We’ve been discussing (here) ideas of identity over the past few weeks, and I think that there is a connection between stability in our movement and what we see as the defining marks of our identity (perhaps the topic of another post).

If a higher proportion of members and participants strongly identify with the OC/IC “brand” (both locally, and on the wider stage) then it seems there is a real possibility of a project surviving and thriving in the face of the challenges presented by fluctuations in attendance and membership. If on the other hand a higher proportion of members and participants are actually incomers (this community is merely convenient) the result can create real challenges for the project and it might not successfully adapt.

My community in DC (which had 15 regulars and an odd handful of intermittent attendees) literally died when I went to study in the UK for 5 months. I thought everything was in place for them to carry on as usual without me – they had a deacon, a priest was only 15 min away if they needed him, they had access to the worship space, and they knew what to do. I even thought that my absence would encourage them to explore new directions and fresh ideas. The community was unable to adapt to a brief, planned absence, of one member, and fell apart.

Take this problem in a different direction. How often do members (not participants or incomers) move away and begin a project in a new place? In my experience, unless they are in orders, never; and it is rare even when they are in orders. Why is this the case? Is it because our bishops and synods are unable or unwilling to support such projects? Do we not encourage them enough? One of my working theories has to do with the sense of isolation OC/IC clergy and communities “feel” living in our tradition – but that will have to wait for another post.

It would be helpful, for all of us, if we were to collaborate and explore ways that we – together can cultivate stability in our movement. The challenge of small group dynamics currently, un-necessarily “clips” any momentum a community or synod might develop.

Any ideas?

  • http://www.inclusivecatholics.org Lyngine

    Hi Alexis,

    Thought-provoking as usual :) . After reading your posting, I was trying to figure out how I got to be OC/IC. I have zero desire for any type of ordained ministry so it’s definitely not the possibility of Holy Orders. In all honesty, it’s not the OC/IC brand that got me or even any of the advantages there are to being OC/IC—which are not readily apparent when one walks into a room of 3 people and realizes that *this* is the parish.

    What made me decide to attend Mass at the local OC/IC parish a second time (that’s the trick) was that the first Mass I went to had authentic, theologically solid, prayerful, very well-done liturgy and a thoughtful homily—so well-done that it was the first time in about 10 years I had been able to pray during Mass. Why I stay and why I now identify as OC/IC (and wouldn’t change that for the world) is because this is where I find God and where I live out my faith in its fullest expression. The stability is rooted in my faith life as a Christian—while I think that being OC/IC is a particularly good way of living that out, all the advantages of being OC/IC wouldn’t hold me for a second if it’s not where I find God.

    As for cultivating stability in OC/IC communities, I’m leaning towards the idea that it may hinge on teaching/helping individual clergy and laity to cultivate a strong, grounded spiritual life and how to sustain that as an OC/IC priest or lay person in the midst of isolation—ministry then flows from that—-if the strong spiritual/religious grounding isn’t there or can’t be sustained, then the rest of it falls apart anyway. As usual, thank Tim and Joseph for this bit—the part about developing and sustaining one’s spiritual life *specifically as an OC/IC priest* and how to deal with some of the challenges that poses is part of the seminary formation program in the ICCC.

  • admin

    Hi Lyngine,

    you made a great point about how it is in an OC/IC community that you find you are able to live out the faith to its fullest expression. It certainly is the same for me. I sometimes worry though that not enough communities are cultivating that – and instead are too worried about the external surface elements of liturgy, rubric, and bums on seats. What does your community do to overcome these – thus freeing the community to “be” community and focus on the real substance of being sacramental christians?

  • http://www.inclusivecatholics.org Lyngine

    Actually, I don’t have a good answer for your question–mostly because it’s always more or less been this way. Which is another way of saying that when Carol (my wife) and I walked into our OC/IC parish, which was also our first exposure to anything OC/IC, no one talked about superficial elements of liturgy, rubrics, or bums on seats. Not knowing any better, we just took our cue from the people there—in this case +Tim and Joseph+. Not talking about certain things though does send a message about what a community thinks is important or not important—-from the beginning, they communicated to us that superficial elements of liturgy/rubrics and the numbers game were NOT what this particular community was about.

    Mostly, they modeled Christian community and invited us into it. The “Christian”/religious adjective there is important because one of the other things conveyed by their example was that the basis and primary bond within the community is religious (not social or political). As an illustration, they invited us to Thanksgiving dinner with some other friends and the first thing that happened was Mass (house Mass)–which made explicit that while the social bond was important, we were also gathering to celebrate as a religious community. They didn’t celebrate Mass just because we were there—they would have done the same thing regardless—they just invited us into it. And they did stuff like this all the time–the secular and the religious were just integrated. So Christianity lived out and integrated into one’s life, expressed and lived at every level as covenanted community—that was the consistent and only message we got through example and through explicit conversation.

    The OC/IC part came in afterwards—-when we realized that the fullest way to live our our faith was in an OC/IC community. So, I think it’s not that we overcame anything to be able to focus on being sacramental Christians. It’s the other way around—that in focusing on being sacramental Christians, everything else that was surface just was never a real issue for us. The caveat here being that it does take both internal and external vigilance to make sure that the focus stays where it needs to stay and doesn’t go to surface issues—-but we got a strong start based on the examples we had from the existing community. Which is why I say that I think a strong, grounded spiritual life is important—-because that’s how I suspect the existing community that we walked into managed to avoid getting trapped in the external concerns.

 
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