I’m still very much in the initial stages of pulling my thoughts together on this.
It strikes me that in the rite of absolution the prayers and actions point to God, his love for us, his mercy, his compassion, and understanding, only once – and then only briefly is the “power to bind” mentioned – at the very end.
The theological and pastoral emphasis is NOT on the “power to bind” – quite the contrary it is on God’s overwhelming love & compassion. Again I am faced with the teaching that we must forgive as God forgives if we are to be confident in recieving forgiveness ourselves – the “power to bind” then, would seem to play a very different role than that presented by the theory proposed in another place.